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Written by: Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish Copyright: 1980 Published by: Rawson, Wade Publishers Inc. This book is targeted at adults specifically with younger children, but from my view these methods can be used in the job place or when talking to someone else. The book talks a lot about control. People control t ....

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.... also respond in harsh ways to peoples stress. People use the Denial of Feelings: "There's no reason to be upset," to the person there is, you might see things differently so it doesn't affect you as it does that person. Another favorite response people use is The Philosophical Response: "Look, life is like that." This just makes most people mad. Pity is heard by a lot by people and it makes the listener feel more pitiful. In the book it tells the reader that you, the listener, do not always need to respon ....